Parenting Tip

December 15, 2014

Being a Servant at Christmas

Sometimes children believe that the whole world revolves around them. Parents, because they enjoy caring for their kids, may at times contribute to a child-centered mentality and further reinforce this misconception. Children can get the impression that parents, siblings, and even the family pets are there simply to make them happy. The result is demandingness and an unpleasant attitude.

One of the ways to counteract this tendency is to teach children to be servants and Christmas is a great time to start. Planning and giving gifts, preparing food treats for others, setting the table, and cleaning up Christmas messes are all ways to demonstrate servanthood. You might have your children take turns giving out the gifts that are under the tree instead of just finding their own to open.

Listening to others, watching family members open gifts, saying thank you, sharing, and looking for ways to help are all ideas for kids to demonstrate a servant attitude at Christmastime.

Use the word “servant” and teach children about its positive meaning in life. Talk about how being a servant is really a gift to others. After all, Jesus became a servant by becoming a man and coming to earth as our Savior (Philippians 2:5).

At this time we want to say Merry Christmas and thank you for your support of the National Center for Biblical Parenting.

Wishing you blessings for you and your family,

Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller

To learn more about connecting with your child’s heart, consider the fourth quarter special, Parenting is Heart Work by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN

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